You see, Jayne brings the seriousness to this experience in order to prepare and protect each of you, individually… she is a big Mama and into coming to terms with that role, she becomes more open to express her concerns to each of you…
You know, it’s not something simple to be standing in front of this Force of Energy; most of you have understood the effect!
Now what’s happening is that We become more invasive; We’re going deeper inside each of you!
We want to have a Question-and-Answer today – this is Our intention…
We want you to begin and clockwise We want to cover your personal concerns…
Also, We would like you to consider what it is you would like to get rid of, what you want to give away today… something about yourself: it could be an emotional state, a physical condition, an addiction, a desire – whatever you want to take off of you, We can help you!
So begin!
You, Th., begin! What is your personal question?
– (Th.) I’d like to talk about relations with the opposite sex… how can we keep the balance within a relation when one cannot express their feelings?
– Each person has both male and female energy inside and one of the goals in this game of life is to balance those two sides…
You might say that the gender is chosen by the spirit, but it’s chosen out of the need for balance! This means that if you are female, you embrace lessons in this balancing that come from the side of your own femininity… the same thing goes for a man, of course!
So if you are a man, you have more work to do on balancing the masculine sides of yourself…
Now, you choose a mate, a member of the opposite sex, in order to interact with… and that other person is, also, in the process of balancing the masculine and feminine sides of them self… so now, instead of two, you have four!
It makes it more interesting, doesn’t it? More challenging…
– (Th.) I find it more difficult!
– First, you look at yourself! Always! In relationships, always, witness yourself!
Witness your masculine and feminine sides…
When you are relating to another, begin to notice what side of yourself that individual stimulates… is the other person pushing out the feminine, nurturer, caretaker or your masculine strength for power?
– (Th.) The way I see the game, most often, people manipulate others…
– What you are saying, simply, is that human beings use each other! Of course! It’s natural…
Now, what else you are saying is that the unconscious processes of the other are manipulating in a relationship – this is why it’s so important to look at yourself!
If you find that you begin to give too much attention to what is happening inside your mate, better take a step back! Back up a bit from the relationship because you got too close, you went too far and you lost yourself… and this, usually, makes one feel angry…
What is the first thing you do when you want to take distance from another when in intimacy? What is the first thing you stop doing?
– (Er.) Sex!
– Very well! Because sex is what tangles up the energy field…
This is how you get close to another, isn’t it? Obviously, this is how you can take a step back! All intimate relationships after a number of years should take some breaks from sexuality in order to re-evaluate the relationship… relations between persons are meant to grow…
The Goal is Love, eternal love! Not eternal sex!
– (Th.) What happens in a relation where you don’t have sex and you find out that it’s not about it the reason for a distance? Can it be something else?
– It depends on what you want from a relationship with the opposite sex…
Sexuality is very important!
It’s the easiest power that you have in your hands energetically… you can use sexuality for evolutionary processes; it helps you to know yourself better, doesn’t it?
– (Th.) Yes, it does!
– You can comment or ask questions about this topic!
– (Er.) I stopped having sex with my husband because I don’t communicate mentally with him; I feel he is my brother, my neighbor, I don’t feel anything!
And this is a very difficult situation; having sex with him without sharing anything spiritual would make me feel like a prostitute and I don’t want that!
– That’s what you people do: you prostitute your own sexual energy!
You see, you are on the right path because if you prostitute yourself because of an institution then, you misuse your sexual energy…
– (Er.) I don’t have any energy right now, I feel dead since yesterday! I have terrible headaches, I don’t feel any blood circulation, I cannot think…
– This is all hormonal! It will pass, it’s temporary…
– (Er.) For the past three months, I’ve been trying to talk to my parents about this but, unfortunately, my trying to explain to them my personal life didn’t succeed… last Saturday I managed to talk with my mom for about four hours and it was the best thing that has happened in my life this year because I thought I had lost her! I’m sorry, I feel too emotional right now and I can’t talk any more…
– How many persons have difficulty communicating with their parents? Is there one person who doesn’t have this difficulty?!
Of course it’s great that your mother has joined you in these classes here, you are students here!
You know that you have certain ideas about your son, Er.; you want certain things for him, for his life…
– (Er.) He is my mentor, my teacher, my coach! I respect him…
– Now, now, you are going to a different direction! You want certain things for him!
– (Er.) Yes, of course!
– Because you gave birth to him! You want to see his life go in a certain direction!
All parents have ideas for their children! And when the child starts to have their own ideas, to go their own way, most often, the parent panics…
Now, your parents care about you, you were the greatest gift in their lives…
And they are panicking when they see you go on a road that they have never gone before themselves – It was their fear that was blocking the communication…
Just as if somebody is having a surgery: the parents don’t want to watch their child get cut open, they don’t want to know all the details of the surgery – they want to sit in the waiting room nervously waiting for the results…
So they just want to know you are ok!
If you give them too many details, they become more nervous… and this is, often, true of every parent! Because the parents have their own life, don’t they? They have their own challenge, their own surgeries…
– (Th.) But whenever they want, they just move into your life, they do what they do, and when you don’t obey, they go back and make you feel guilty! They don’t give you space, they are manipulators…
– The child is the one that must learn to say ‘Stop’!
Not with anger, not even with emotion! This is what Jayne’s daughter does to her all the time and Jayne stops…
The parent cannot stop themselves from putting energy into the children! Depending on how evolved they are determines the value of the input, of the advice that they are giving to their child no matter what age the child is…
It’s for the child to understand that ‘this is not valuable advice for me!’ respecting always the intention of the parent: the security of the child! The parent is, usually, a bit older than the child and has passed through difficulties that they don’t want, necessarily, the child to have to go through…
And don’t forget karma!
In this dimension, as you operate as parent and child, there is, usually, some type of karma that brought you back together…
– (Yi.) Can You tell us about karmic relations with our parents? Is there something worth telling us specifically?
– It’s better for you to ask a question about them, it’s better to pinpoint what motivates you to ask that question…
– (Yi.) Actually, I’m asking about V.’s parents!
– Now, V., which parent do you want Us to talk about?
– (V.) About my mom but, actually, now I want to ask about this difficulty I have in breathing…
– This began when you arrived here! When did you start feeling this?
– (V.) When I was about 23 years old!
– And when did this most recent attack begin?
– (V.) Things got really bad after the reading we had last April…
– Of course, you understand that during the healing process, things often become worse before they become better, you know this…
There is, also, an element of pollen that is affecting you! It’s all happening simultaneously, you see! It’s a flow…
Come over here! And We will talk about your mother!
There is a level of pressure that she put on you that wouldn’t allow you to grow up – see it like that… she wanted to somehow keep you under wraps like a cabbage patch, like a fairy! She wanted you to be a fairy, she wanted you to bring magic into her life, she didn’t want you to become a woman!
Where is your mother?
– (V.) Here in Thessaloniki…
– Where is she in your body? Where you feel her – close your eyes and feel your mother!
– (V.) On my neck!
– Struggling you?
– (V.) Yes!
– She won’t let you speak? She won’t let you express yourself!
– (V.) She won’t let me tell her what she doesn’t like!
– You see, in going into your own creativity and expressing yourself, you are breaking through a block that exists between you and your mother… what you might do is dedicate some of her writing to her to set her free!
You see, she has been your child in another life; she was a handicapped: deaf and numb! She couldn’t hear or talk…
– (V.) I’ve learned the language of the signs in this life so that I can communicate with the deaf!
– Of course, you heard what We said today about protection: how the mother wants to protect her child! You couldn’t get through her mind when you were her mother, you couldn’t get into her world and this was your struggle with her!
And now you, karmically, brought her back into your pattern in order to throw away the difficulties: in relating with her, you learn new ways to express yourself! She, actually, becomes a stimulus for creativity in your life…
With your mother it’s best not to communicate with words, you know: actions are better! Even when she does this to you now, sit with her and take her hand or bring her a gift! When you meet her, don’t stay for too long; you can just have brief encounters…
Hug her, kiss her…
And if she wants to talk, let her talk but you don’t have to say anything – just receive from her! There was a block in her giving to you when you were small, you didn’t receive enough from her! And if you try to give something back to her through your voice, you lose energy!
Any questions?
– (V.) Lately my anger towards her has gotten bigger, I can’t see her for a minute without getting angry at her! I want to forgive her but I can’t!
– Yes, you can! She is not your mother, you are her mother!
You see, if you take a different perspective, then you don’t have any reason to be angry at her with the situation – she was incapable! She is not your mother, you were born in a cabbage patch, you see? You are a fairy!
– (V.) The fairy of cabbages?!
– Of nature! Of the vegetable kingdom!
And better to release yourself from expectations from mothers, everyone! Forgive your mothers! They couldn’t fulfill their roles; you, children, were too difficult!
How do you raise a fairy?!
When you are not even in the same dimension! There is no chance to hear what she is saying!
– (V.) Which dimension is my mother in?
– In her own world just like everyone else!
You see, some worlds collide with each other; they don’t blend!
If you spend too much time with her, you make a mistake, energetically…
You have to protect yourself! Yi. can’t protect you… your mother can’t protect you…
What can you do to protect yourself?
– (V.) I could go to an orphanage!
– Fairies can fly away… go away from her!
Now, K., We want to hear from you!
What do you say for all this nonsense in here? We want to make fun of Ourselves!
– (K.) Can I ask something about me? You said in my personal reading that I have to crystallize my energy! What does it mean?
– First, to witness as it is happening to you! Accept it as it happens…
When you become crystallized, you are no longer reflecting your splattering or you are no longer reflecting directly; you move your energy in many different directions… like a crystal: when the light hits it, it brings the light into many pieces illuminating many points… And you can do it with people easily when you feel like it – you don’t have to do it!
– (K.) Many times when I’m alone I feel like watching my life in a video…
– You see, you’ve already become a witness of your life!
You don’t need any extreme makeover, an extreme spiritual makeover, you don’t need this… you don’t need to study any kind of spirituality… you don’t need to meditate: you’ve already become the witness to see your life…
You’ve had enough lifetimes on the spiritual path and they have been stabilized on you! This means that if you have something to say to another person about them, they will do well to be all ears to hear what you have to say, no matter how far out it sounds to you! You might not know where you get the information…
This is what happens when you become crystallized!
This is a special power that has joined the Group, you know, before it’s time! K. is early on the planet!
Now, Yi., what do you want to talk about?
– (Yi.) I don’t have anything specific, I like watching what’s going on…
– M., let’s talk to you and then come back to Yi…
– (M.) I’m facing a great difficulty nowadays! I can’t communicate with people because they don’t talk, they shout…
– That’s their problem, first of all! It’s not yours!
You see, when you start to expand, your consciousness rises above the typical chatting and you can’t communicate with the small minds!
– (M.) As a result of this, when trying to express my opinion, I feel a block in my throat and my voice closes down; I want to be able to communicate in a peaceful manner…
– Come up here!
You haven’t found yet the actual path to communicate with the others and this is because you care too much! You care how they are going to receive what you are saying; you are not able to say your truth because you are sending your energy into the receiver…
– (M.) What should I be doing?
– First, be aware that this is what’s happening!
You are holding on, M., to the role of the mother and this is what’s affecting your communication with the others… you are trying to protect them from what they have to say!
If you are in company and the energy starts to disturb you, leave the room!
Don’t insist to communicate, not at that moment!
You might always have a paper and pen so that you can write what’s coming out of you, what’s in your mind, what you want to say so that you get it out…
And things will change… don’t insist! Don’t raise your voice over another’s to try to be heard – it’s self-destructive!
– (M.) Will it help putting it into writing?
– Yes… very much!
Keep a notebook for yourself… you can write the person’s name and then you can write what you want to say to them so that you can be in a greater relationship with your notebook than with anybody else… and see how it works…
Now, We want to say something generally…
Don’t touch Jayne when she is in a trance!
When you touch her, you break her energy field and this causes a great disturbance in the system!
Don’t feel guilty about it! You are forgiven, We secure you in that!
This is the same reason why Jayne doesn’t like to be patted: her energy is not inside her body, it’s outside – about ½ m from her body…
If you hit it, you break something and then she has to recover!
It’s, partially, Our fault because We took over her physical form – particularly when she is in a trance…
Now you can sit in your seat, M., and Yi. will ask something now…
– (Yi.) Lately, I’m trying to go with the flow: not to judge the others! I realized that we lose energy in this way, is this correct?
– Yes! It’s one step!
If you can go into the courtroom and be the judge and, also, have the attorneys present for defense and conviction to defend equally both sides…
You see, judging is natural; its dimension is dualistic… the only way to escape is to balance it!
So if you witness the judge, the judging mind, and you bring in both sides of the room, then it becomes an even more exciting game…
Because moving through life is coming to conclusions – reaching conclusions and making choices… so the judge is necessary! The judge is usually the good guy in the courtroom – doesn’t everyone rise when the judge enters?!
The problem is the convict!
When you judge yourself, you put yourself on trial!
When you judge somebody else, you put them on trial!
Now the convict has always the chance to defend themselves in court, don’t they?
So if you are judging another, keep that in mind: they have the right to defend themselves! And they are the ones who choose their defense attorneys – you don’t!
So whenever you are judging another, you are taking the side of the prosecution!
– (Th.) Who is the judge?
– Who is the judge?!
Does anyone have really the right to judge another?!
And how many people are on the jury?
You see?
The judge doesn’t even make the decision; that’s the jury!
So going into judgment, you have a great many positions to fulfill before you reach a verdict… so when you want to judge yourself, give yourself a few hours… so you can either look at all parts or get bored and stop playing the judge…
You see, the things you have to go through, you can’t just go over them…
– (V.) I’d like to ask if we in this room have co-existed in other lifetimes…
– You have been a child of Jayne’s, this is why you have to pat her…
Perhaps you go and pat your mother…
There is a great many connections in this room!
It’s time for you to use your own imaginations and then you can say: “Tell me about my life as the …” like that… this makes the game more interesting for Us!
Now, move closer so that you can hold hands…
Everyone close their eyes as We send energy through this Circle…
You won’t receive anything that does not benefit you individually…