Understand that each of you carries this Energy with you!
Into the energy form We enter in the neck area… and through the solar plexus, the center of the will power, is the way to come in association with the physical bodies…
And you can communicate with Us in many ways, there is not an obstacle…
It’s ok when you think it’s your imagination; We like you to use your imagination anyway!
It’s an error, a fallacy for the human to think that they are alone!
Each of you live in a body of thoughts: your own thoughts and of those around you, the thoughts that you’ve had historically… also, the fantasies and the dreams that you have for the future!
Who wants to talk about dreams for the future?
– (K.) I want to be able to live in the moment freeing myself of the past and, also, to get over the logical thinking…
– Become loving… treat each day as a gift… look for things to love… it’s not something that is foreign, it’s not something you can’t find inside yourself…
– (…) Dreams are dangerous… how can we dream without creating problems because of that?
– This is the Game of Life! This is the excitement: the obstacles that you encounter!
Imagine that you are playing a board game and you don’t want to reach your goal without any obstacles, do you? The satisfaction in life comes from overcoming obstacles or challenges!
The difficulty comes when you can’t understand why you created such a challenge…
If you accept that life is a learning experience, then you will always be asking yourself ‘Why am I having this experience?’ ‘Why does this obstacle come?’
If it reappears, you have something to learn; and when you learn, you no longer need the lesson! You integrate, just like in Martial Arts: once you learn one move, you integrate it with the others and then you are more prepared…
– (K.) You said we are carrying your energy with us; is this the reason why my stomach feels better now or does it have to do with nutrition?
– Both! It wasn’t an accident who suggested that nutrition to you anyway!
If you become too one-pointed in your focus, you will miss the opportunity to have a full experience of life… it would be like an athlete only exercising one muscle of the body and not paying attention to the other muscles… you were putting your body into a regime of exercise without considering the nutritional components in order to balance the seriousness of devotion to your arts…
And remember: sugar is poison for everybody unless it’s fruit sugar or in the grains…
Now We want each of you to admit that you have a dream for the future, that you want something…
– (K.) I feel love is rising inside me…
– You want to feel more love, you want to have a love affair, you want to become love! First, start by loving yourself! Find excuses for pampering yourself…
– (…) Sometimes we do not know how to love ourselves…
– Accept and treat yourself as something valuable!
You know how you care for something of value compared to something that is not so worthy…
– (…) But sometimes we make mistakes!
– And then you forgive yourself immediately; you don’t beat yourself because you make a mistake!
What do you love most about yourselves? What are your good qualities, as they call them…? What makes you lovable?
– (G.) My sweetness…
– (L.) I’m caring and playful, attentive, a listener, I think I can overcome the communication obstacles…
– (K.) Humour…
– (A.) My cheeky humour…
– (K.) I don’t know!
– Now We are turning the table: what makes you unlovable?
– (G.) I feel I am too square minded, too logical…
– (K.) I’m over-protective with the ones that I love…
– You can look at your intimate relations and remember what the biggest complaint from your mate was… even if you didn’t believe or accepted it…
Say it! What was their complaint?
– (K.) I’m critical, which creates a distance… and also, patronizing…
– (K.) I’m controlling and criticizing of others’…
– (A.) Possessive and controlling and jealous…
– (G.) Obsessive, compulsive, disordered …
– (G.) I share my fears nagging about them all the time until the other gets fed up…
– Perhaps all the things that you’ve mentioned make you unique, each of you!
What makes somebody lovable: their uniqueness!
What makes one person unlovable: fear!
Fear of losing control is what most of you are admitting…
Your mothers probably would not say to any of you that you are unlovable! You can’t be lovable and unlovable at the same time!
What We are saying is that you are not unlovable because you have human characteristics! All of the characteristics that you described you think they make you unlovable originate from fear: Fear of Losing Love…
Love is something that you are!
And the more that you focus on that direction, the more that you appreciate yourself, the more honest you are with yourself about being human, the more you become Love…
– (K.) So You are saying that we need to accept our humanness…
– Of course! You can use this technique of humor to accept yourselves more…
– (K.) And release ourselves from the obsession for perfection…
– Of course!
If you accept that you are part of the spirit, that part of you is spirit, then you can accept that you are the human expression of your spirit… and all of your characteristics make you unique! And that’s why you are so lovable: because you are unique!
No-one is exactly like you!
So if you are having an intimate affair and you witness your jealousy or your over- protectiveness or your controlling nature, why not talk about it rather than becoming it? Why not speak about it with your loved one? ‘I feel over-protective of you: I don’t want you to go out at night’ or ‘I want to control you: stop smoking cigarettes!’ or ‘I’m very jealous about you spending time with that woman’…
If you can put it on the table, then you can accept it easier and then it won’t control you…
– (K.) If you put it on the table, it’s suicidal!
– This means that you believe that that trait of your own is unlovable, you want to cover it! And then what you are trying to cover puts a veil between you and the loved one!
Why are children so lovable?
– (K.) Because they are spontaneous!
– They are sincere, they know they are lovable! If you want to become more lovable, be more sincere – always first with the self!
– (K.) I believe this happens because we are afraid of each other…
– Of course! The fear that it won’t be acceptable…
The error in relations is believing that the other has to accept every part of you! That if one says ‘I’m jealous’, the other says ‘I don’t care; it’s your issue, it belongs to you!’
This response is your fear!
– (K.) So it’s our problem?!
– If you don’t put it on the table, you are not being sincere!
You are allowing that trait to block you from loving yourself! The error is believing that Love can be found outside of them self!
Loves grows from within the self!
And the more you love yourself, the easier it is to love others, to forgive others, to forgive yourself…
– (A.) So we project everything to the other person…
– Even Love…
– (G.) I’m seeking love from somebody I admire – I did all I could but I chickened out in the end, I got tired too… was I right to do that?
– Do you love yourself more now after all this effort?
– (G.) No!
– It’s a long shot! You tried to manipulate something and you understood it wouldn’t work anyway! You are not confused! Are you, still, infatuated?
– (G.) Yes!
– There is a difference, you know, between infatuation and being in love!
The first can lead to loving but it’s not real if you don’t have any contact with the person!
Why are there stars in the world?
What turns somebody into a star?
They are very good mirrors!
Our advice: become your own star! Become the star of your own life… you are living your life: become the star of your performance…
– (…) What if we get caught in ourselves?
– Do you have fear of egotism?
– (…) Yes!
– It won’t happen to anyone in this room!
– (…) Do some people know their talents and some don’t?
– (…) How can somebody have a real relationship in this life?
– What is real?
Sincerity brings Trust!
You know if you have somebody that you trust, you would probably call that a real friendship, correct? You know that if you need them, they will do whatever they can do!
– (…) But I think intimate relationships are a bit more complicated!
– Sex makes things sticky; there are many expectations…
– (…) And with expectations comes disappointment!
– It’s not wrong to have expectations; it’s wrong not to express them!
Accept yourself first!
If you express your expectations, then you give your partner the opportunity to respond, to agree or disagree… if you keep it hidden, if you don’t open up, that is when the trouble starts…
– (…) But when we get infatuated, we tend to hide the negative parts and present our good aspects and we create a god out of them – isn’t this another obstacle when relating?
– (K.) I believe falling in love brings insecurity and expectations are created on both sides and pain comes along…
– (G.) Why is there so much pain when falling in love?
– It’s not the love that’s hurting; it’s the lack of self-acceptance!
When you fall into love with another, you are looking for the other to pull you out of this hole that you fell into… and if they don’t think it’s worth it, then you have to crawl out yourself: you fell!
When you fall in love, look at the qualities of the person that you admire! See why you fell in love with this person… if a star walked into the room, don’t you realize that you would all fall in love?
One becomes a star often because they are reflecting the characteristics that the audience or those who are not stars, want to absorb! Attractiveness!
So when you fall in love with another human being, take a pragmatic look at what they have that you want for yourself!
You don’t, necessarily, want them, you know! Maybe you think they are more, socially, acceptable…
Who has a dream for the future?
– (A.) I’m in the process of living my dream which is a combination of different things! I’m not sure I want to share this with the others but I will do it!
– Do you think they might steal your dream?!
– (A.) No! Ok, I need a loving partner to live together in a sunny country next to the sea, open up a spiritual center and work with people who are interested in knowing themselves… and I want to decide when to die…
– We give you Our blessing!
– (L.) Along with my work, I follow university studies overcoming many obstacles and I carry on not knowing where it will take me…
– (K.) I want to be able to live a normal life without having to work that long hours and play the housewife with the love of my life…
– (G.) I want to work as a professional DJ but I find it quite difficult – the universe doesn’t seem very helpful…
– We want to end with a meditation as usual…
Close your eyes imagining that there is light shining in the centre of the room… and all of the obstacles you have met and you will meet on the path towards manifesting your dream, you are donating to this light… so you are putting those obstacles out of yourself, into the light…