26.10.23 ~ (From Personal Reading)
What do you hope for? Peace and love. Then you become that. That is as simple as it gets. You become what you hope for and then wait to see how that works out. Something else?
Humans are meant to be multidimensional and multi-faceted and have multiple intimate relationships in life, it is necessary for self-development. It is about respect. With intimacy often comes a great deal of disrespect for others. This is just a human emotional thing. People come together intimately and expect the other family members or whoever should disappear but that is not going to happen. It exists. There is not just one-for-one and forget everybody else. The best direction to take in a relationship is to just pipe down, to be neutral. Freedom. There is a need for freedom. That is the only way to understand the multidimensional self. When there are family dynamics the opinions tend to flow easily and that is where neutrality is the best choice. If you are very close to someone your opinion will move them, even if they don’t need to move. They will move and they move out of balance from an opinion of a loved one. The wisest people make their own decisions; they make personal decisions before discussing them with family and friends. You probably know that. But when there is a council, a team then that is when everyone’s opinion is necessary, needed, has to get on the table, etc. but for family, zipping it is probably best.